Blogging through the frustration

through the frustration

I’ve only been at this thing since July 11, 2007. At this point that is only about a month and a half ago (it’s now August 25, 2007). In this time I’ve learned a lot. Both about myself, my interests, and my tolerance level for . The one thing however that I’ve learned which is most surprising is that blogging can be a very frustrating past-time.

Obviously I can’t speak for anyone else, but I doubt anyone of us got involved with in order to be frustrated, and yet on a daily basis I am ready to tear my hair out. I have a sneaking suspicion that I’m not the only one who suffers from this blogging affliction. Except maybe Darren Rowse of Problogger. Hard to be ready to tear out what you don’t have… Much of…

I don’t even know the guy and I’m making fun of him. That’s not the purpose of bringing his name up. I was actually watching a posting on Pro Blogger a few minutes ago which gave me the idea for this post. It was about how important first impressions are on a blog. It got me to thinking how frustrating it can be when you are trying to ensure you give a good first impression.

As I said I’ve come to discover that is actually very frustrating. Below I’ve lined out a few things that I personally find frustrating. I wonder how many of you either find the same things, or other things to do with blogging frustrating?

Choosing a title
We all want a title that conveys the essence of our blog to readers. Without that we’re sunk from the word go. If I spent a second I spent countless hours trying to pick a title for this . First of all I had to like it. Second of all I had to be able to get the domain name. In fact I bought a domain name and 5 minutes later I changed my mind. In the end I ended up with A Blog about Nothing. Sometimes people ask me why I would choose that name. In answer I did so because it was the antithesis of what I wanted the blog to actually be about. I figured that people would be able to get that the word “nothing” was indeed the antithesis. Is your blog title appropriate? If you had never read this blog would this blog’s title be appropriate? Would you understand the meaning behind the words?

The tagline that isn’t
At one time I had a tagline. I don’t remember what it was, and that tells me it’s a good thing I no longer use it. If the originator, and author of a can’t remember their own tagline it’s a pretty good bet no one will. That like the title was something I spent untold hours on developing. To this day I’m still haunted by the frustration of not having a working tagline. How about you, how did you come up with your tagline? Is it effective or are you just holding onto it because it is familiar?

To niche or not to niche
Long before I decided to make this blog A Blog about Nothing, about 3 seconds before I figured out the title I ultimately picked, I thought I wanted to make this a blog about something. That something was going to be about computers. In fact my first post was about computer related things. As you can no doubt see I rarely talk much about computers anymore. Or anything else for that matter. That’s really the point. Sometimes it is less frustrating not to have a niche that you have to honor on almost every post. I also discovered that in almost every niche out there at least 100 other “expert” bloggers were out there promising to teach us to success in that particular genre. Anyone else have a similar experience? Did you start intending to become the next great thing in you niche and come to realize there are so many niche bloggers out there that you just get lost in the shuffle?

Looking for a “cool” layout
I’d be lying if I told you I am pleased with the current layout. It’s not bad, and most people have told me they like it better than the last one I had. It’s not near enough to what I think I want. What do you want asks the industrious designer looking to build her portfolio. I have no clue, and that’s what is frustrating. I want all of the bells and whistles, and yet I want it to be lightweight and spartan. I’ve been through 5 differnt layouts in the past month and a half. Does anyone else have a problem finding the layout? Would you pay someone for a custom layout, or is a downloaded layout just as good?

A new topic everyday?
When I made the decision to go ahead with a nicheless I was under the (false, clearly false) impression that no matter what I would always be able to find a relevant and timely topic. Relevant to the events of the day in case you’re wondering. Aside from other blogs I also look at news papers, watch tv, surf the internet, talk with friends, and family… I just live life and find topics to write about. Problem is that there are so many topics out there that it is frustrating. Do you ever have a problem picking a topic to write an article about on your blog?

Communicating your idea
I’m a fan of books. Long books. Books that draw out their plots and their characters. I don’t want to find that I’ve not said enough and lost a reader. Strangely just the opposite seems to happen. I’ve done some statistical tracking and I’ve found that short, concise posts get the most readers. Which is truly a surprise to me as I figured the better worded (read: more heavily worded) enteries would prove to be the most popular. Do you ever have communicating your idea either because you tend to be “wordy” or for some other reason?

That’s a few of the topics which prove frustrating to me. There are more, but that’s enough to get going with. In case you’re wondering why I still blog if so many things frustrate me. Simply because I find it enjoyable, educational, and a challenge. Unlike so many others I’m not going to teach you how to make moooney online with your blog theme, or money for that matter. I’m not going to award you $10,000 for winning my contest. Nope not gonna do any of that. Because I enjoy blogging and because I find myself unable to stop is why I keep going. The frustration is why I continue striving to improve.

  • Ladan - It's really a numbers game. The more people who read the more people are likely to comment. It is the same idea as things like PPC programs. If you have 500 readers a day you'll make significantly less than someone with 5,000 readers a day.


    Regardless you won't get comments if you don't invite them. For an idea of how to do that take a look at this article I wrote about building relationships.


    First thing you might want to do if you'd like more traffic is put your blog in your comments where it gives you the option for a website address. This will link your name to the blog and people just might click on it from time to time.

  • Ladan
    Hey there. I am a blogger myself, but not to the point of blogging everyday.

    I hardly get any comments on my blogs. I don't know if this is because no one's interested, or, it's just time that doesn't allow us to share our thoughts.

    Not sure if the difference in the size of the blogs will bring up more comments or less. I think it doesn't matter. You still may not have any comments anyway. :)
  • I share some of you frustration sometimes but ultimately, like you, I enjoy what I do and so I'm still doing it.

    I might try my hand at shorter post but it's hard to summarize them into short post of say 300 words! I am used to expressing in the 800-1500 range :P

    Cheers
    James
  • Happily anonymous - I post when I have something to post about. Which seems most everyday, but if I miss a day, or even a week I won't beat myself up over it. And thanks, I'm glad you've enjoyed it/them.

    Bob - I think most people do that. I doubt many blogs would make it past the first few days if people weren't passionate about them. And who knows, maybe they don't. I know there are a lot of abandoned blogs out there. I wonder what the statistics are.
  • Bob
    Having a ultra niche blog I know what you mean abot finding things to post about and then trying to put it into words so as not to put the reader to sleep. so the bottom line for me, I post for my passion and for myself.
  • Nothing wrong with having high standards for yourself. ( That's what I've perceived from this post anyway.)

    My blog is just an outlet for me on daily life and I try to put a humorous spin on it. I used to be obsessed with posting every single day but I've relaxed on that.

    Like you, I've noticed that the shorter the post the more comments bloggers seem to get. I'm a wordy doofus though for the most part.

    Enjoyed this post a lot. (Along with your comment @ Blogcatalog in a thread. Cracked me up.)
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